Category Archives: Inspiration

5 Things I am Most Grateful For

I cannot believe it’s been so long since I’ve written! Nearly 2 months!! Yikes. Life has been pretty hectic – studying for exams, renovating and whatnot. Phew! I’m glad it’s all over! 🙂

I have contemplated over and over about what I should write. However, recently, my friend was in a pretty nasty car accident (the other car ran a stop sign when she was driving 100km/h on the motorway and totally wiped her out) but luckily, came out of it with only a few cut and bruises. Her parents were furious about the whole situation, and rightly so, as it was negligence on the other driver’s part).

After speaking to her, it made me realise of significance of the situation and that I take a lot of things for granted. Sentimentality is not something I am capable of at great lengths, but these are the things I am grateful and thankful for.

1. Parents

I am grateful to have both parents who are so flexible with us when it is not in our culture to do so. They are always there when we need them, no matter what the situation is. They’re constantly working to provide for us when we’re already capable of earning our own living – it is nevertheless a grand gesture to let us know that they’ll always have our back. I know a lot of people who do not have this – the world is tough and cruel for many. As such, I am very thankful to have both parents who are alive, well, and treat us like diamond – well, instead of wrapping us up in cotton wool of course! 🙂


2. Friends

I am very introverted and antisocial on most days of the week. I don’t have many friends – you can probably count them on 2 hands, if that. However, the friends I do have are great people – ones who I can relate to and understand. Ones who I can go for years without talking to and still know that if we caught up with each other tomorrow, it would just be the same as it was before. Ones who will always be there if I ever ask them to come. Regardless of where they are, there are unexplainable ties that binds us – irrevocably and permanently.


3. God

There are many things in this world can be explained scientifically but I personally believe that there is some higher existence out there. Someone that will always help us if we ask for it, enough to guide us into the right direction, but just so, without interfering with our free will. There are no coincidences in this world. For many people, the belief in their God, no matter the religion, gives them hope and faith. Who am I to take that away from them?


4. Books

Words are a wonderful thing. They can be as sharp as swords, inflicting pain and drawing blood, powerful and unyielding or eloquent and dazzling. A combination of this with a creative mind will make possibilities limitless. It always amazes me the world the authors create – from Middle earth by JRR Tolkien, to the wizarding world of Harry Potter by JK Rowling, Sherlock Holmes by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, and Oceania by George Orwell. I am forever grateful for being able to read and stepping into these worlds created by the many wonderful authors out there. They have provided me with comfort on many rainy days.


5. Internet

The internet is a blessing and a curse. It has made the world borderless, allowing people to reach out to one another across continents, seeking friendship, assistance and love. It has allowed people to share ideas, thoughts, feelings, information and opinions where they would not normally do in real life. However the internet also has its fair share of unsavoury tales as well. Regardless of people’s intentions, the internet has been a major step in technological evolution, keeping people well informed and competitive – and for that, I am grateful.


Twenty Twelve: Take that leap this leap year

Too often we fall into a routine – doing the same things day in and day out. We become comfortable in our zone and motivation starts to leave us. We become floaters – drifting through life with no real aim or purpose. Nobody wants this, but how do we change it?

Albeit this may be a little late, since we’re in the middle of April, but let us change our lives this year for the better. Take that leap!

Be a little bit more selfish and look after yourself this year. Nobody will love you more than you love yourself. We only have one shot at life and one body – make use of it, look after it and it will look after you. Be happier. Throw out bad habits. Work smarter, not harder. Play more, not less.

Always envied the beautiful photos/dance moves you see? Do that photography/dancing class you’ve always wanted. Want to lose weight or become fitter? Join that fitness club you’ve always noticed on your way to work. Life is a constant whirlwind of busy schedules/meetings or resolving family/work related problems? Take that time off for yourself every Sunday, even if it is just an hour, to unwind and relax before the next hectic week starts. Always wanted to open up that business and work for yourself? What are you waiting for?

Still think you are not ready? Nobody is ever 100% ready for anything and opportunities don’t come around very often so Take. That. Leap.

Take baby steps if you’re afraid – change has to start from somewhere. As long as you acknowledge it and accept it, you are half way there already. Become proactive rather than reactive. Set yourself short term goals – for a week, a fortnight, a month, mid-year, till the end of the year and strive to reach for it.

What have you started doing this year that will change your life for the better? Better yet, what will you do this year to make yourself a happier you?

These are some sites I’ve bookmarked and refer to whenever I become unmotivated:

30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself by Marc @ Marc and Angel Hack Life

50 Life Secrets and Tips by Jordan Lejuwaan @ HighExistence

21 Habits of Happy People by Cindy Holbrook

One Giant Leap for Blogging

“The only race you have to win is the race against yourself – there will always be someone faster and stronger but there will never be another you, so look within and push your own personal boundaries.”

When I first started blogging a couple of months ago, I never thought it was possible for me to reach even 400 views a day. Even up until about a week ago, when I was setting myself goals (with one of them being “to get 400 views or more per day by the end of the year” – you can read more here), I still didn’t think it was possible.

Today, for some unfathomable reason, I reached a massive milestone – out of nowhere, I’ve already had 1, 070 views! I was completely taken by surprise. This has far exceeded my expectations. To some, 1, 000 + views & 50 odd comments may be an everyday natural thing, but to a novice blogger like me, it means a great deal. It kind of reminds me of the feeling I got when I first got my real pay check after being registered as a pharmacist – ecstatic and elated.

You all have provided me with the confidence to continue what I am doing, and for that I am thankful. I am glad you have found my blog useful – useful enough to refer, relink and share on facebook, twitter and any other social media sites you use. There is so, so much more I would like to share so feel free to come back sometime for another random babbling.

Have a good weekend everyone,


To Inspire Others is Extraordinary


To be able to write, is a gift. To be able to express yourself in such a way that compels others to comment, is a miracle. To be able to inspire others, so they are willing to set their goals and try to reach for their dreams, is extraordinary. I aim and strive to be like that one day.

In one of my management courses I am taking, we study/analyse large corporations, and how they came about. Toyota, General electric, Outback Steakhouse, Just Cuts, Google, Apple… the list goes on. Regardless of what the industry is, they all have one thing in common – They all have long term and short term goals that they set, and they strive to reach those goals and targets in a certain time frame.

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